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Michelle R
Tualatin, OR
11/3/2020
Hello everyone! This is our first year homeschooling (chose to because of Covid) and we are having a VERY difficult time supporting our almost 9 year old with the 7-9 curriculum. She is a strong reader and enjoys math, but is struggling significantly with writing. She at baseline likes to push limits and seize control wherever she can and most days struggles with starting school participating with the assignments. I'm wondering if any other parents are experiencing this and if there are any suggestions on tutoring services. I think that she would do much better to have someone other than her parents directing her education.
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Angela D
La Grande, OR
11/3/2020
I think it is normal to have some push back from your child with this. This is a huge transition during an uncertain time in history and we are all feeling it. Often when my child start to push back, I find that finding a way to give them some more autonomy often helps (even in areas of life that are not just school). Giving her control of the schedule or when she does which lessons, when to take breaks for snacks and fresh air, etc. My best suggestion is to create some routine and expectations. She may need to understand when you are the parent and when you are the teacher and respect those roles as well. You can do this but it may simply take patience, time, and flexibility.
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Venessa E
11/5/2020
im in a similar situation with my son, constantly making excuses as to why the day is challenging. I was fighting back with him on it and have decided to use a different approach that seems to be working. I take whatever his excuse is and flip it back on him. ie: "Oh you're too tired today? it sounds like we need to set an earlier bed time. Lets try it tonight and see how you feel tomorrow". We still go along our day as usual but by the next day the excuse is out the door because he doesnt want to go to bed at an earlier time.
Im having trouble feeling like im an effective teacher to my son as i don't feel confident in what im teaching. Im more than capable of being able to do it. I feel like the guides given are lacking a bit. This is new territory for those of us who have never done this before. I think it takes time to get everyone used to new roles.
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Angela B
College Station, TX
11/6/2020
I fought this very thing over the years, and the best thing we ever did was create tangible daily expectations. I feel like being on my 6th year of this with three kids, I can speak pretty confidently on it.

I think sometimes we get so caught up in the freedom of homeschooling that we forget how much kids need structure and boundaries. I get my kids to do their school work the same way I make them do a few chores and teach them act respectfully of others. I've created a FEW hard stop expectations.

All three know that Monday-Friday from 9:00-3:00 is blocked out school time. (With an hour break for lunch and to run around/whatever and needed breaks throughout) Unless they've finished EVERYTHING they needed to do for that day, they're not gaming or playing or virtually anything else during that time. I have an Alexa alarm that goes off every 1.5 hours as a cue to maybe move on to another subject for my child who needs that. I do my work in the same room as everyone else, so I'm accessible to them for questions. Also, I feel like it models for them that I have to spend my work time during the day taking care of my business, they must do the same. If they do zero school work that day, they have appropriate consequences. Maybe they need to start going to bed earlier or have less screen time or need to spend some time catching up on Saturday.

I allow them to decide what subjects they work on and in what order. One size does NOT fit all, and I try not to impose my preferred organization style on them. It gives them some actual control within their boundaries. I also allow them to tweak activities to something that suits their interest or personality better. I allow them to take off on projects/subjects that they become intensely interested in, and we might move quickly through lessons they find less interesting. That all fosters a bit of trust and independence between you that makes it more enjoyable for everyone. Often times, kids fight for control just to fight for control. Let go of the reigns, but keep them in the fence. You know?

I temper the schedule that may seem strict with a healthy dose of grace for mental health days, headaches, math frustration, family fun days, a novel they just want to read through, etc. We take a lot of breaks during the year and basically homeschool year round, so we work hard but play hard as well.

Now it's just second nature, and we really don't have any big fights or struggles. They just know that's the expectation.
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Michelle R
Tualatin, OR
11/7/2020
Thank you for the suggestion of giving her more control with the sequence of assignments. That seemed to help a little bit this week.
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Michelle R
Tualatin, OR
11/7/2020
I do agree with you that I find the guides lacking in the foundational building blocks of how to teach writing. I think that since it is made more for gifted students it assumes that the student is comfortable with writing. My daughter is struggling with writing most of all. I really have liked the math curriculum however.
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Angela D
La Grande, OR
11/9/2020
I have always felt that the curriculum does a good job of teaching how to write. Of course, I moved my children back a grade when I moved to this curriculum because I knew they needed to catch up a bit on their writing skills. It is recommended that you place your child first based on their writing ability. Is it possible that your child is using too high of a level for their writing ability?
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Michelle R
Tualatin, OR
11/9/2020
Prior to Covid, my daughter felt more confident about writing. I think since school went to online and didn't really focus on writing she is out of practice as well as the assignments being challenging. Are there any suggestions on programs or exercises we can do to catch her up? I've never been a teacher before and I feel a little like I'm not giving her the tools to help her be successful. She is about to turn 9 and so I really don't want to go to the 5-7 curriculum.
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Angela D
La Grande, OR
11/9/2020
If you are looking for a teacher to walk your child through writing and give great feedback, you may want to look into a program called Write at Home. They offer semester, full year and 6 week courses.